Monday, January 30, 2017

Bump Update - 23 Weeks!

Here we go with week 23's update and recap!  



How far along: 23 Weeks
Total weight gain: 17 lbs.! I jumped up 5 lbs. this past week alone! Not real happy about that...
Maternity clothes: Yup! They are such a blessing and so comfortable!
Stretch marks: None so far! Fingers crossed!
Sleep: Slept better this week. I think I'm just so exhausted my body doesn't care how much it aches!   
Best moment of this week: Baby boy finally kicked daddy! I am so glad he got to feel the miracle of our son the way I get to feel everyday!
Worst moment of this week: Probably having to listen to more politics at a family gathering... I just wish we could all move on and get back to enjoying our lives and each other! 
Miss anything: With all the political drama I cant seem to escape from I would kill to be able to hide away with a glass of wine in my hot tub!  
Movement: He's getting stronger everyday. We are starting to develop a pattern!  
Food cravings: Sonic double bacon cheeseburger! Thanks to my sister for getting me one!
Anything making you queasy or sick: If I try to make myself eat something I am not really in the mood for.
Have you started to show yet: Oh yeah!
Gender: Boy!!
Labor signs: None. Jut good ‘ol Braxton Hicks 
Belly button in or out: Almost popped out, but not quite there. 
Wedding rings on or off: Off L
Happy or moody most of the time: Happy 
Looking forward to: Getting our tax return so I can finish furnishing the nursery! 






Sunday, January 22, 2017

Bump Update 01-22-17

Good evening! I've decided that at the end of each week I'm going to answer the following questions and share my bump pic. I know that no one is as excited as I am about my little rainbow baby, but it will be fun to see how the answers change as I grow larger and larger. 

How far along: 22 Weeks
Total weight gain: 12 lbs.
Maternity clothes: I finally broke down and bought some maternity clothes last week. I tried so hard to avoid it, but sometimes you need real jeans not just leggings!
Stretch marks: None so far! Fingers crossed!
Sleep: Haha! I’m so uncomfortable and the heartburn is a nightmare. I forgot what sleep is.  
Best moment of this week: Hearing my little man’s heartbeat on the Doppler!
Worst moment of this week: Finding out I may have to be induced. Not the best news, but I will do whatever is best for Elijah when the time comes.
Miss anything: Alcohol! Lord knows some days I could use it!  
Movement: He’ not been as active this week, but he is still a mover and a shaker at night.  
Food cravings: Brownies. There may have been some tears shed over wanting a brownie 
Anything making you queasy or sick: Any foul smell has me running to the bathroom. Thought I was over this after 13 weeks but I guess it’s back. 
Have you started to show yet: Oh yeah!
Gender: Boy!!
Labor signs: None. Jut good ‘ol Braxton Hicks 
Belly button in or out: Almost popped out, but not quite there. 
Wedding rings on or off: Off as of Thursday L
Happy or moody most of the time: Happy 

Looking forward to: Finishing up some of the decorations for my baby shower. 

Please excuse my homeless look this week... I was exhausted and not really feeling the whole picture thing. 

Big News!

Hello my lovely loves! 

It’s been so long since I have written. I feel so guilty! I don’t have a very good excuse either. Life has been crazy in the most amazing and glorious way! I AM PREGNANT!!! Like seriously there is a living, growing, baby in my belly! Never thought it’d happen and as soon as we stopped worrying about it and accepted that we would just try our hand at fostering to adopt… BOOM! I had been experiencing nausea I wrote off as stress, heartburn I also blamed on stress, and was a few days late. Must be the stress, right? I mean I don’t even ovulate regularly on my own and had a round of fertility drugs in my nightstand just waiting to be started. Well, it was our first wedding anniversary and I was watching Gossip Girl on Netflix while my husband was at work. Something told me that even though it was going to be a BFN, to go ahead and take the spare pregnancy test I had stashed in the back of my vanity drawer. I took the test, waited the 3 minutes, and glanced at the test then tossed it. Suddenly my head was spinning. I was so ready to see Not Pregnant that it took a minute for it to register. Pregnant, 3+ weeks. I snatched it out of the trash and stared in disbelief. The test was wrong. It had to be. But there is was in all it’s digital beauty. I lost my composure. Immediately I dialed my husband. Bless his heart I was crying so hard he thought someone had died! Instead, I shared the news that we were going to be parents. Best anniversary gift ever!

September 21, 2016 - Happy Anniversary! 


We got our first sonogram at 10 weeks, had an amazing gender reveal at 14 weeks. Our newest addition is due May 22, 2017 and IT’S A BOY! He has been growing like a weed in there and at 23 weeks he is kicking up a storm. It’s still so hard to believe that I have made it this far. After losing two babies in my life I am causiously optimistic. I’m praying every day that our sweet Elijah will be my rainbow baby. The uncomfortableness, intense heartburn, and sleepless nights are all worth it just to feel him squirm around in there. I am counting down the moments until I can hold him in my arms. 

November 19, 2017 - Gender Reveal Party - 14 weeks

Thursday, September 15, 2016

Drug Store Faves!



Looking good doesn’t have to cost an arm and a leg! Drug store make has come a LONG way since the 90s. Here are some products I use and love that won’t break the bank! All products listed are less than $15 each! Enjoy and please share your favorite frugal beauty finds in the comments below! 














Airspun Loose Face Powder















Covergirl Trunaked Eyeshadow Pallete in Roses

















L'Oreal Paris Voluminous False Fiber Lashes Waterproof Mascara
















Maybelline Fit Me Foundation














Maybelline Age Rewind Concealer














Maybelline Eye Studio Gel Liner















Milani Prime Perfection















Milani Stay Put Brow Color



































NYX Butter Gloss



NYX Makeup Setting Spray Matte Finish



















Physicians Formula Butter Bronzer Murumuru

















Rimmel Scandaleyes Waterproof Kohl Kajal Eyeliner, Nude


















Wet n Wild MegaGlo Illuminating Powder

9-15-16 Update




I havent given a health update in a while so I figured Id catch you up! I never published an update like I promised from the last appointment with my pain specialist I talked about. Well, it turns out I saw the assistant, who couldnt give me a referral, but gave me a new medication and told me to come back in a few weeks. The new medication made me high as a kite! My pain wasnt controlled at all, but I was just too messed up to care. Needless to say that was not an acceptable fix.  In the mean time I got a recommendation for a Rheumatologist and I made an appointment for a month later. When I went back for my follow up at the pain specialist I told her that the pills were too strong and I couldnt live like that. Her solution was to offer me morphine. WTF? Morphine? Really? I think I literally laughed out loud. I asked if she could just up the dose on my patch and give me some tramadol until I went to see the Rheumatologist. She still had no idea what was wrong with me and literally said Hopefully itll just go away. Im pretty sure that was my LAST visit with her. She was more interested in being my drug dealer than being a responsible doctor.  



Last Wednesday I went with my mom to see the new Rheumatologist. We didnt have to wait hardly at all before seeing the doctor and she actually sat there and talked to us about my symptoms and my complete medical history for 2 whole hours! I used to take Prozac to help with my OCD and anxiety, but my OB-GYN took me off of it when my husband and I started trying for a baby. About a year later is when my symptoms started. It turns out, my Dr. thinks that the Prozac could have been controlling my fibromyalgia without me ever knowing I had it. There is still a possibility of Lupus, Psoriatic Arthritis, or a few more things I cant remember; so after our discussion she did her exam and sent me for bloodwork and x-rays. She also wrote me a prescription for Prozac to see if that helps control my symptoms. I go back to see her at the beginning of November. I left her office feeling of hope for the first time in a long time. She really seemed to care and determined to help me.


Well, its been a week and I can already feel a difference. My pain levels are lower and there have been a few days where I havent even had to take a pain pill! That is big news for me! I even decided to come to San Antonio all week with my husband. He is here on business and while he works I am relaxing by the pool and catching up on my reading. Its been amazing! I am starting to look forward to the future again.  


Sunday, September 11, 2016

3 Free Date Night Ideas For Each Season!





In any marriage or long term relationship its important to never stop dating each other. My husband and I have really been slacking in this department lately. We usually use the excuse that we are too broke to go out all the time, but that was just that an excuse. And a bad one at that. Not every date has to cost an arm and a leg. Heck, it doesnt even have to cost anything at all! Here are 3 date ideas for each season that wont cost you a dime.  

FALL:

1. Check out the local pumpkin patch! And while you're there have fun with a cute photo session. No professional camera needed! Just grab you phone and click away.

2. Pitch a tent! If you already have the gear this is a fun way to enjoy the great outdoors without spending a dime. Whether you chose a secluded spot in the woods or in your own back yard by the fire pit, it's sure to be a romantic evening all snuggled up watching the sunset and admiring the stars.

3. Be thankful and volunteer together. It might not be the most glamorous date, but you will feel wonderful for helping those in need. Not to mention, charity work is a great way to bond and grow closer.



WINTER:

1. Go to a local festival! Most towns (especially the small ones) host annual winter or holiday festivals.

2. Light show! Drive around on Christmas Eve looking at all of the beautiful Christmas lights. This would make a wonderful tradition and you can even hit different areas each year to change it up!

3. Cuddle up by the fire and drink spiked hot cocoa. Sometimes when it's cold outside you just want to stay in and keep warm. Maybe even throw in a game or two.



SPRING:

1. Have a photo shoot with your spouse. You can dress up in silly costumes/clothes, use photo booth props, or even have a sexy boudoir shoot.

2. Picnic in the park. No, you aren't part of a cheesy chick flick on Lifetime, but that doesn't mean it won't be romantic. Pack up some sandwiches, snacks, and a nice bottle of wine if you have one on hand. Spread you blanket out at your favorite park and enjoy!

3. Visit the local Farmer's Market and try lots of samples! Make a game of it and try to find something for each letter of the alphabet.



SUMMER:

1. Take some old free pallets and build something together. It's a great way to work on being a team and a fun bonding experience. As long as you own the project piece youll think back on how much fun you had making together every time you see it.

2. Get in a water balloon fight using left over balloons from your last party. Sometimes the best dates are the ones where you both cut loose and act likes kids again.  


3. Chopped Home Edition. Compete to see who can cook (or bake) the better dish using just the ingredients you already have at home. Get creative with the prize. Make a paper trophy or let the winner chose what to do for your next date night. Help each other do the dishes after so one person isnt left with the whole mess and try (not) to get in a water fight while youre at it.  



Comment below with any free date night ideas that you might have. Id love to hear from you!